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Badgergirl · Joined: 23 Nov 2004 Posts: 1 Location: NY, NY

I have heard that co-ed showers are becoming more popular. Any thoughts for or against this? I'm not sure how I feel about it. Surprised

LizMed · Joined: 28 Nov 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Deland, FL

I know they're becoming more popular and I guess it's a good thing to include the groom. Have been to "stock the bar" couple shower and it was fun...but, guess I'm old fashioned...I still like a traditional, all girls get together best.

Lauras aunt · Joined: 09 Jan 2005 Posts: 1

Stock the bar is always fun. Also have a home improvement shower(Home Depot, etc)..that way you get cool things for the house. I have never seen the couples open gifts together. The guys lose a little patience with all of that !!

beb0315 · Joined: 27 Mar 2005 Posts: 2

I also understand that coed showers are becoming more popular and I am in favor of them in the appropriate setting. For example I think it would be a good idea to have a coed family shower; that way the groom would get to meet cousins,aunts,uncles,etc. if they have not met before.
This way family members and the groom can meet in a casual setting before the big day. I also am still in favor of multiple showers and an all girl shower is a must.(To do the silly games that most guys would not enjoy!) Smile

haleymyers14 · Joined: 10 Apr 2005 Posts: 4

I think co-ed showers are a great way to include the groom and his family with all of the wedding events. Although it is not traditional, it is definitely becoming more and more popular. This is also a great way to meet more of the grooms friends and relatives! Very Happy

Nwando · Joined: 24 Apr 2005 Posts: 1

i'm thinking of having a combined shower for men and women since our wedding is out the country do you have any ideas or tips whether to have it later in the evening or day time brunch or so

Melissa&Mook · Joined: 24 Apr 2005 Posts: 2

I find most people end up with mulitple bridal showers, whether from co-workers, friends, or family members.

Maybe you'd prefer a co-ed one with the family, but keep the friends one & all girls thing, or vice versa.

I know we'll be having a co-ed one with my fiance's co-workers, but my co-workers will attend the friends & family one with just myself. Smile

Shannon · Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 1 Location: VA Beach, Virginia

My husband attended our Baby shower. He felt so good about being involved. He helped with the games and loved all the attention he got as the Dad-to-Be. It was almost sickening but cute. He had that "that's my Boy" tone and demeanor. It was so nice to have him there. It didn't bother me one bit. Even though, I would've loved the "All Girls Shower". Having my best friend there was great!

goodwillrowing · Joined: 15 Nov 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Los Angeles

I like CoEd showers. Why limit the fun from the guys when you can add them into the mix. It's a great way for other singles to meet quality singles.... I have two good friends who met that way..... They'll thank you for it.

tabby · Joined: 26 Mar 2007 Posts: 20

i think its still great to have the traditional stag party/bridal shower thingy Smile

Lisamarie · Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 2

Co-ed showers are becoming quite popular these days. I still prefer the traditional girls only shower. The only thing the guys would be interested in is running up a huge bar bill. Razz

a1davis1 · Joined: 18 May 2007 Posts: 1

Contrary to many, I think that co-ed showers are a fun idea. In the past weddings have always been focused more on the bride, which is fine to all of the Bridezillas out there, but a bride only makes up half of the relationship. A wedding is a time to concentrate on the couple, and what better way than a shower. Don't get me wrong it is fun to get all of the girls together, but that can be done over a nice dinner or at the bachlorette party. Long story short, I think that co-ed showers are fine.

kis2908 · Joined: 19 Feb 2008 Posts: 4

go for it! we're had several and i think they are super fun!

FLgal8 · Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Posts: 3

We are currently planning a co-ed (Couples) shower for my son and his fiancee. He was really feeling left out when we started planning a traditional bridal shower. He really wants to be there and participate opening the gifts. I also think it'll be a great way for everyone (women AND men) to get to know each other before the big day. So far we have two games planned (one being the Newlywed Game). Don't want to play too many games so the guys get bored.

gowen05 · Joined: 12 Apr 2008 Posts: 2

I personally didnt have one, but my sister did. It turned out great and we had a great time mixing it up a bit! The more people the better it was! It cost a little more for food and drinks but it was worth it!