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daeradis
Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 9:27 am Post subject: Children at the Wedding - Keeping them Occupied |
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Newbie here, so hello all!
My wonderful, patient, kind fiance and I are getting married on July 29, 2007. There will be about 50 children, most under the age of 12, at our reception (yikes!). Any suggestions on how to keep them occupied or how to keep them from wrecking havoc? (no kids myself, can you tell?)
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monkey
Joined: 11 May 2007 Posts: 2
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:54 pm Post subject: Re: Children at the Wedding - Keeping them Occupied |
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| daeradis wrote: | Newbie here, so hello all!
My wonderful, patient, kind fiance and I are getting married on July 29, 2007. There will be about 50 children, most under the age of 12, at our reception (yikes!). Any suggestions on how to keep them occupied or how to keep them from wrecking havoc? (no kids myself, can you tell?)
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Keep 3 or more people in charge of them to keep them busy with several activities. Give out ribbons that say things like "I'm an angel" or "Best Dancer" etc. out to all of the kids at some point in time. Here are my top 6 things to keep kids busy at a wedding/party.
1.) Bring crayons! Make a wedding card--Great keepsakes
2.) Dance Contest! Keep em movin and wear em out!
3.) Take a few disposable cameras make up some teams and send them on a "people" scavenger hunt! Whoever takes a picture of everyone first wins!
4.) Set up a traditional scavenger hunt!
5.) Take some plain cupcakes and have a small table with icing and sprinkles and such and let them decorate their own cupcakes!
6.) Have some family members draw portraits of them! This sounds weird but kids seem to love someone taking the time to draw them!
Hopefully some or all of theese things will help you! Just remember no amount of preparation can prepare you for 50 kids! |
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monkey
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:56 pm Post subject: Re: Children at the Wedding - Keeping them Occupied |
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| daeradis wrote: | Newbie here, so hello all!
My wonderful, patient, kind fiance and I are getting married on July 29, 2007. There will be about 50 children, most under the age of 12, at our reception (yikes!). Any suggestions on how to keep them occupied or how to keep them from wrecking havoc? (no kids myself, can you tell?)
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j_armstrng
Joined: 10 Jun 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 9:40 am Post subject: re: keeping kids occupied |
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| I used to work at a wedding reception hall, and whenever we had a big group of rowdy kids, we'd set up a kid's movie like Home Alone or whatever in a back room, and they also sat glued to the screen - worked great! |
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Sarah46
Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Posts: 16
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 3:37 pm Post subject: TV for sure |
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| Yes, have a separate playroom designated, and hire babysitters if necessary! Make sure there's something always on the TV. |
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aspasia475
Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 9:30 pm Post subject: |
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I have some experience of large family weddings: with nine nieces and nephews, twenty-six grand-nieces and grand-nephews, and ten grand-nieces and grand-nephews with a couple more on the way -- plus whatever children are on the "other" side of the family -- we have babies in arms, toddlers, schoolchildren, pre-teens, and teenagers: usually dozens. But, we have never had crowds of *rowdy* kids.
Mostly, what our children do at a wedding is a) watch the ceremony, and b) eat dinner and dance. The only consideration they need is that they don't drink wine so something else needs to be available from the bar for them: white grape juice or lemonade. And they finish dinner before adults do so it's nice to have colouring pages at the table, or else a corner of the rehearsal hall where they can play quiet games together. We have a couple teenage girls with a talent for organizing clapping games like "stella-ella-olay", and for the most part the parents in the family quell anything like tag before it breaks out. And if the parents don't LOL there's always the great-aunts to do the quelling!
I like to see five-year-olds waltzing with their dad or mom, and ten-year-olds joining in the line dances. If they were all shipped off to a spare room to have their brains dulled with videos, the whole celebration would lose a lot and they'd be losing that edge of calm social confidence that comes from practicing good social behaviour. |
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mMiddleton
Joined: 09 Sep 2008 Posts: 1
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:50 pm Post subject: 50 children @ a wedding? |
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I was once involved with planning a convention where we had co-ordinated child minding for the whole weekend and planned events in a separate area from where the main events were. We also had AV equipment rented and plenty of DVD's on hand
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phillipe
Joined: 09 Apr 2009 Posts: 2
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| I would say to not invite kids if you do not want them there. |
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phillipe
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 10:17 am Post subject: |
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| I would say to not invite kids if you do not want them there. |
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brettsmom
Joined: 25 Jun 2009 Posts: 1
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Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 6:53 pm Post subject: Great Ideas! |
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| "monkey" had some really great ideas! I would choose a couple of those and run with it! Very creative, and knows what kids like! |
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carlatate
Joined: 28 Sep 2009 Posts: 1
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:11 pm Post subject: kids at wedding |
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| we are planning on having the coloring books, disposable cameras, and bubbles to occupy the kiddos. And in our family, if there's dancing, the kids are occupied with that! |
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jreub
Joined: 01 Nov 2009 Posts: 1
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 1:25 pm Post subject: Entertaining the children |
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We have a facility with a theatre. Will serve popcorn and cotton candy and have the children think they are going to the movie theatre..  |
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