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HAMBONE · Joined: 04 May 2008 Posts: 1

I have a friend getting married next summer, and he is having a problem deciding on an officiant; he does not want a religious figure, or a judge. In Oklahoma where we are from all you have to do is fill out the proper paperwork at the county courthouse where you will be preforming the wedding. I was wondering if it would seen tacky for me his close friend to perform the wedding, because everyone is aware that I am not a Judge or Clergyman? Razz

vicloveswesties · Joined: 02 Jun 2008 Posts: 1

Make sure it's a serious step in life- don't take it lightly.

jenlyoung · Joined: 20 May 2009 Posts: 1

I think it's a great idea. Very Happy

txpartygirl420 · Joined: 07 Jul 2009 Posts: 1

that is actually a very good idea...you know the person and what to expect from him/her. we had an officiant and she did horrible..i rather of known someone who could pernounce my name!

hkemp795 · Joined: 03 Feb 2010 Posts: 2

I am trying to find someone to perform my wedding. It is outdoors and I don't want a religious figure. I called the courts and they said they will not appoint me an officiant until I have a marriage license, but then they say not to get your marriage license until a month before. So I don't know???? Confused Question

hkemp795 · Joined: 03 Feb 2010 Posts: 2

I am trying to find someone to perform my wedding. It is outdoors and I don't want a religious figure. I called the courts and they said they will not appoint me an officiant until I have a marriage license, but then they say not to get your marriage license until a month before. So I don't know???? Confused Question

kyswtheart19 · Joined: 07 Mar 2010 Posts: 1

I think it's a great idea. It was an option we considered as well. However, like others have commented, you want to make sure that you do not take it lightly, as it is a very serious and responsible position. Best wishes on whatever you and your friend decide is the best way to go.